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August 18, 2016
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June 27, 2016
This Resistance in the Chattering Mind then creates a whole physiological change in your body, reinforcing your Resistance.
And this physiological change, in turn, continues to reinforce your Chattering Mind’s story making you feel like you are a small, separate self.
When you are unaware, you are caught in this unconscious looping, which only exacerbates your strong emotion.
Inquiring into and really feeling your feelings and emotions from your Open Mind, instead of unconsciously reacting from your Chattering Mind’s story, begins to build the skill of bravely attending to all that you experience.
In bravely attending to your experience you are able to respond wisely to your own emotional life.
You will see that all feelings are valid and are a natural part of this human life.
Practice :: When you notice a strong feeling, begin by first dropping your Inner Attention’s attachment to your Chattering Mind’s story about your emotion.
Then shift your Inner Attention to the experience of feeling the way the feeling moves through your body.
Simply practice feeling your feelings in your body without getting caught in your story about the feelings.
The emotion moved through and you are even more present and grounded because of your courage to open fully.
Note: Sometimes big emotions are just too big to feel alone. It’s important when you are feeling overwhelmed by emotion to reach out and seek the support of your parent, teacher, a trusted friend or a counselor.
June 5, 2016
Sometimes monumental courage.
This means, Brave Adventurer, that you must fully open to what you consider pleasant, as well as unpleasant, without getting lost in either.
Practice :: When you notice that your Chattering Mind is Attaching or Resisting, name the feeling, drop your Inner Attention out of the Chattering Mind’s story and open fully to the feelings in your body.
Opening fully simply means, as much as you are able to in the moment, from your Inner Attention feel the experience of Attachment or Resistance in your body without getting swept into your Chattering Mind’s story about it.
Anchoring your Inner Attention in this way will help you stay out of the story and in the Present Moment.
Pay attention to how the sensations of Attachment and Resistance arise and eventually pass through you. What is left?
May 16, 2016
It can be very challenging at first to open to your feelings and emotions as they are happening.
The habit of getting swept into the Chattering Mind’s story and physical sensations is strong in all Adventurers.
Consciously beginning to see clearly and name Like, Dislike and Indifference when they arise and the emotions that naturally follow will help you to step out of the Chattering Mind’s closed system of reactions and suspend the stress response.
This creates some space around your feelings and emotions.
And this space begins to bring you back to your Open Mind and remind you of the fluid, dynamic Adventurer you truly are.
Practice :: As you move through your day, notice and name when you Like, Dislike or are Indifferent to an object, situation, experience or person.
Seeing and naming your Likes, Dislikes and Indifference begins to return your awareness to your Open Mind and the Present Moment, moving you out of the closed system of the Chattering Mind.
Consciously note the strong pull to get caught up in what follows Like, Dislike and Indifference—Attachment and Resistance.
At the same time notice how noticing brings you into a conscious relationship with your experience!
Allow this conscious relationship to move you back into your Open Mind and Open Heart.
May 9, 2016
And this may be the biggest adventure of your human life—to wake up your Open Mind and know your Open Heart as home.
May 2, 2016
With an Open Mind, you can begin to accept what the flow of life brings your way week to week, day to day and moment to moment.
From your Open Mind and Heart, you have the ability to work wisely and skillfully with what is unfolding.
Life is sometimes like this.
Sometimes good experiences, sometimes bad.
Sometimes happy, sometimes sad.
Sometimes peace, sometimes frustration.
From your Open Mind and Open Heart, you can bravely accept what is here today and begin to respond wisely instead of unconsciously reacting from your Chattering Mind.
April 25, 2016
When you are courageously opening to the flow of life, you are naturally more joyful.
Think back to the example of the tendency to Check Out during your chores and how this dulls your experience of life.
When you wake up your senses to the warmth of the dishwater on your hands or the largeness of the night sky as you take the garbage out, a natural joy and aliveness awakens in you.
You are intimately connected to the cosmos, the earth and this intelligent life flowing through everyone.
Opening to this connection allows you to relax and go more confidently with the flow.
Joyfully, you understand that you are so much more than your small, repetitive Chattering Mind.
You see clearly the intelligent and interconnected flow of life that moves the planets and stars, shifts winter into spring and flawlessly moves you from being a baby to a toddler to a teen.
From your Open Mind you can acknowledge and joyfully feel the mystery and the goodness of your human life unfolding moment by moment.
April 11, 2016
Opening bravely to the flow of life wakes up your natural kindness.
Remember the example of sharing your favorite outfit with your sister?
You may not have shared your favorite outfit, but in your kindness you were able to help support your sister.
You see how deeply connected we are to one another.
Not only do we share the same air, water and planet with every being, but the life that flows through you flows through every life form on the planet.
Shaking off your own small Chattering Mind and seeing the largeness of your interconnectedness reveals that being kind to everyone you meet is the only thing that really makes sense.
This kindness spills over into how you see the stories of your own Chattering Mind.
The worry, the judgment, the fear all come from the Chattering Mind’s sense of being small and disconnected.
You remember this small self isn’t the whole story.
Remembering and feeling your connectedness with all of life creates a space for kindness towards your own limiting stories for what they are—just stories.
April 4, 2016
Think back to the example of breaking your arm.
However, when you were able to courageously open to your situation and discomfort, you created the space for your natural compassion to arise towards yourself and others in your situation.
You noticed you were lost and disconnected from the aliveness of you in the present moment.
You could see and feel how this felt small, confining and even painful. And you remembered to come out of your Chattering Mind and into your Open Mind, compassionately and bravely being with your Chattering Mind’s stories and emotions.
This led you to know first-hand how easy it is to get lost and disconnected from the moment.
You now know how uncomfortable it is to feel like a small, static, stuck self.
So when you see family members, friends or even strangers lost in their Chattering Mind’s stories about a challenging situation, you understand where they really are.
This understanding naturally awakens your desire to help and support—your compassion.
Practice :: This week, when you are interacting with family, friends, teachers and classmates remember your own Open Mind and Heart.
Bring the wisdom of your Open Mind and the compassion of your Open Heart to each interaction.
No matter where your friend may be coming from within themselves, remember their capacity for wisdom and compassion too.